Thursday, November 20, 2014

Life Is Just Too Flippin Wonderful !! Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

I wish I could feel bad, well maybe a little, about not having the time to write the past 3 weeks but I don't !  Life has just been full of awesome people, things to do, errands to run, venturing out and about, experiencing and enjoying new celebrations and holidays, and just plain loving the life of an active retirement life in Puerto Vallarta!! 

I'd been looking forward to Halloween here, as well as, El Dia de Los Muertos, The Day of the Dead. Here it has become quite combined with Halloween, it being celebrated as the Children's day of honoring. The traditions of Mexican and U.S. Have been blended. The children here are taken by their parents up and down the streets of businesses and it's the businesses, plus some local expats, hand out candy to them. They chant only "Halloween" rather than "Happy Halloween".  The costumes are quite impressive and I simply adore the children!!

The Children's Halloween parade. Thank you, Randy & David for letting me share your photos!

Photo by Randy & David.




This is what I'm having done to my face next year! Great face painting by talented young ladies.

As for us, for the first time in many years, we too dressed up a bit. It felt really fun to walk the main streets to get to Nacho Daddy's for their epic party. Standing room only (we got the last table) with 3 different bands and a fun time for all!

Boo!!
 







 
 
On Sunday, November 2, the true Day of the Dead, we met up with our good friends, Rob and Shauna, who had just returned from a month in the states, for a traditional Mexican dinner at El Arrayan. A fabulous venue in Gringo Gulch with devine authentic Mexican food.


 
 

 



 
 
From there we walked back across the river to Old Town and enjoyed drinks and friendship at Los Muertos Brewing, where they had a street party going on with several different kinds of bands. It was enjoyed by locals, tourists, and expats alike. That's another reason why it "works" for us here. EVERYONE enjoys what is offered here, no segregation of anyone!  We co-exist and commingle like all humans should. 

Our landlord, Dave Smelser, arrived for 10 days and we thoroughly enjoyed his company and friendship!  We also enjoyed his sharing of his borrowed car to cart us around on errands for the apartment and building needs. Thank you, Dave, for being a great landlord!  This fact can make or break the bliss of living an expat life.

Dave Smelser, our fabulous landlord!
 
Mike had his tooth issues last month that were costly and unexpected. So when his other front tooth veneer broke off only 2 weeks after the other front tooth being repaired, we were both just done with highly frustrated!  The good news was that it was easily glued back on and has been fine since then. A total of $29 US to fix at the best dental clinic in PV. 

Rainy season was well on its way out but along came another hurricane (Vance), which brought more rain but not as much as expected. It was the next Tropical Depression that never became a hurricane that caused much more grief. A whole 36 hours of doom and gloom and heavy rain last week. That duration is extremely uncommon!  

The ones that suffer the most are the tourists. We feel awful for them when they're here to enjoy our blissful weather with their hard earned money only to have crappy weather. At least it's a warm rain. Considering the frigid cold that's hitting the US and Canada, it wasn't a horrible experience. 

This last storm, however, brought with it the "seasonal" change. The humidity has dropped way down and so have the temps. Mid to high 80s during the day, lower 60s at night, along with wonderful ocean breezes. Sleeping has been incredible with the ac off for the winter and only beautiful fresh air under a light blanket. Heavenly!!

Our lives continue to be enriched by meeting folks visiting PV, mostly for the first time, to check it out based on my blog. I'm honored over and over again by how it's been received!  And, Mike and I thoroughly enjoy sharing our experiences and gained knowledge with others so they, too, can embrace the expat life in PV and the Bay Area.

Kristi Gomez, a Facebook friend, meeting for the first time face to face.
 
Mike & Sandy, blog followers from San Diego.
 

Me, Cindy & Doug, blog followers from Denver, CO.

 
And, we are now into our 2nd High Season and we are beginning to see many we met last year winter and, when, possible get together again. 

Randy & David, blog followers that we met last winter and they have now purchased a new home here in PV!!
 
Wayne, a Spanish classmate & wonderful friend, who was here just a few days.

Todd, a snowbird from CO, that was here just a few days to perform a wedding but will be back in January. And, our good friend Harris, who lives here but did some world traveling this summer.

Me, Lana & Dick.  We met Lana at the International Living Conference last June when we spoke. She has now decided she really would like to live here & is looking for her new place come spring.

The Saturday Farmer's Market began again on November 1. A delightful event that brings out many to enjoy all the handmade crafts and food. 

A big event for Mike and me has been the painting of our apartment bathroom and bedroom. Over 3 days, we transformed them into warm inviting places!  So enjoy the new colors and the crisp clean feel!! Thank you Dave for trusting us to do right. 

 

 
We also have decided to add a few more personal art and decorating items to make the apartment feel more like "us" in style.  So after searching a long afternoon throughout the City Market and surrounding shops, we decided on this fellow. The minute we saw him, we fell in love!!  However, it was ours only after a long negotiation period. You have to be willing to walk away. Our efforts at pricing were confirmed to be correct after meeting a wonderful local in a stunning Huichol gallery. 


 
Mike has also kept busy by doing some electrical work in the apartment. He turned this non functioning outlet into a functioning double outlet in the bathroom with a bit of patchwork. A great addition for us. All without getting electrocuted!!

 
Last Sunday evening, I enjoyed a wonderful meal at Bravo's with a group of women called the L.O.C.A.'s.  It's an outdoor adventure group that has a Meet & Greet every month along with a monthly adventure excursion somewhere in the area for a hike. Many times it includes either getting there by boat or a hike through rivers and a waterfall or two.  I only knew a few that were there, so it was fun meeting other ladies in the area, many of whom are snowbirds.

One of the greatest assets to the PV area is Pam Thompson-Webb!!  She has a service called Health Care Resources PV www.healthcareresourcespv.com. She coordinates different clinics for all sorts of preventative medical throughout the area with specialist doctors at a discount.  So I took advantage of the foot clinic. On Tuesday afternoon, at the local CMQ Hospital here in Old Town, I met with Dr. Patricia Villanueva.  What a thorough exam of my feet!  She confirmed that I do have a fatty tumor on my left foot instep with no issue; that I definitely have extremely high arches and must wear shoes with good support for the arch; and, that I have very good blood flow to my feet, which means my heart blood flow is working just fine.  All of this for a total price of $18US (250 pesos).



The other cool thing we've done is take a free tour of the Mexican Navy Tall Ship that was in port just a few days over the long holiday weekend.

Me & Tessa Armstead



 

Everyone keeps asking what we do all day.  There is no "typical" day.  They are all so different but I want to walk you through a full day of ours that occurred yesterday with wonderful friends, Shauna & Rob.  It's a prime example of how good life is here in retirement.

Up at 8 am, after a wonderful night's sleep with the cooler temperatures and nightly ocean breezes. I make my 2 cups of coffee that I drink with cinnamon, honey and a bit of milk.  Mike has his lemon juice and mineral water drink. We both sit down on either the sofa and spend an hour or so checking in with the rest of the world on line.  We each have different preferences for what we read but this is our meditation and quiet time before moving on with our day.  Mike is religious about doing his exercise routine while I continue to read or write.

Out the door by 9:30am to walk about 3/4 of a mile in Old Town across the river to the International Friendship Club (IFC) where we had a meeting regarding a volunteer committee that we belong to. From there, we walked back into Old Town stopping to do a few errands along the way with the goal of meeting up with good friends, Shaun & Rob.

Shauna and Rob met up with us at the bottom of their hill and we began a new adventure for us.  Rob and Shauna were going with us to have lunch at El Rio BBQ, which is quite a ways up river inland.  Rather than take a bus, we all decided to walk since Rob and Shauna knew the way.  So off we went on a beautiful glorious cooler morning to walk the streets of many outlying true Mexican neighborhoods.  Walking on cobblestoned streets can be quite challenging but good for strengthening your balance. Ha!

It's a really good thing that they were with us because it was full of twists and turns and paths.  After taking the riverfront path that is now revealed since rainy season has subsided and the river has receeded, we crossed a swinging bridge over the river into the Buenas Aires neighborhood.  We continued up river into another small village where the main road was completely torn apart for repair/installation of new sewer and water lines. 






No, we did not cross this bridge.


School girls chumming it up for the camera in Buenas Aires.  Kids are always kids!!



The walk was about 2.5 to 3 miles and took about an hour.  But, oh so worth it!!  El Rio sits on some beautiful ground along the river with jungle all around and a beautiful steep rock face across the river.  Having lived on the Kettle River in Northeast Washington, the terrain was very similar actually but we didn't have palm trees.  Such a wonderful venue!!







Mike's and my lunch were predetermined, as we had purchased coupons at 60% off through Cupocity.com.  Our lunch consisted of a huge pulled pork sandwich with fries, and a beer or lemonade for each of us.  Our total prepaid bill was $7 for the both of us.

As we were footloose and fancy free, we lingered over our lunch and had a couple of extra drinks to idle the time away.  Enjoying absolutely every moment of it!!

Our walk back took us in another direction along the other side of the river so we could enjoy the sights and sounds of the neighborhoods there.  What a delight to discover new areas so close to home!!  And, you get great exercise to justify the whole event!!

Coming over the stepped foot bridge down from Gringo Gulch onto the Island that sits in the Rio Cuale, we decided to stop for Happy Hour drinks at a small riverside café that we had never been to.  Actually, the main goal was for Mike and I to be able to use the baños !!  A great relief!!  To our satisfaction, the 2x1 drinks that we all had were very good.  Shaun and Rob had Rum Punch and we had Mojito's. 

 






After sharing the 2 drinks (1 each) and a total bill of $5, we all moved lazily on to another out of the way restaurant/bar that Mike and I had been to back in January called Uncommon Ground.  Their Happy Hour started at 4pm and the timing was perfect because we had all decided to continue our day by going to the 7pm movies. 

Uncommon Ground is owned by two lovely ladies, Lydia and Ann, who have been here 10 years.  Their establishment is very Zen with a twist.  All of the furnishings were shipped here to replicate their bar/restaurant that they ran in New Jersey just across the river from NYC.  Nicely done, ladies, you are an huge asset to this wonderful town of ours!  Happy Hour here just means reduced prices on certain drinks including my beloved wine.  You aren't forced to drink 2, which is a nice change that I wish more places would do.  So our total bill upon leaving at a bit after 6pm was $6.25.

Uncommon Ground

We all walked (yes, we still could) over to the bus stop and caught the tunnel bus to the Galleria Mall up across from the ship marina.  We enjoyed a beautiful sunset again during our ride. Our timing was perfect for getting into the movie just as it was about to start.  Interstellar was most fabulous and quite better than we had anticipated!!  A good choice.  Movies on Wednesdays are half price for everyone.  Mike's and mine are always half price because we have the Senior's Discount Card for Mexico (INAPAM). So total cost for the movie was $5 for the BOTH of us.


 
 
 



A quick ride back on the bus to town (total cost for us roundtrip at half price $1.20) and a nice stroll home.  We were gone a total of 12 hours, had a fabulous day of volunteering, exercise, good meal, a few drinks, friendship, and exploration for a whopping $25!!  Now, you just can't beat that! Who says PV is expensive to live in??  Absolutely, utterly WRONG!

I'm going to end this post with a tribute to a newer good friend who passed away suddenly on Monday - Judy Snow.  You were taken way too soon from many who love and cherish you! Be happy on the other side and look down upon us once in awhile and think about all the wonderful good times we had together.  Miss you and love you, mi amiga!!!

So until I find the time in my busy wonderful life to write again, to all of you, please have a wonderful life until then.  And, to my American friends, Happy Thanksgiving!!  We will be celebrating here in our home with many new and cherished friends. 

Hasta luego, mi amigos!!

 


Sunday, November 2, 2014

BUDGET UPDATE - October, 2014 Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

This chart is now dedicated to our living in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. Anyone still wanting to take a look (and, they should) at our country and location comparisons from our living in Panama, Costa Rica, Ecuador, Nicaragua, and Mexico, you can find it in my Archives in March, 2014. 

I will now concentrate on a full year's monthly budget to show absolutely everything we spend money on. We have proved that you actually can live well in PV on the $1,800/mo budget, and I will continue to use the $1,800/mo as our goal because it keeps us accountable.  But I'm certainly not going to beat ourselves up over it if our expenditures creep a little closer to $2,000/mo.

We chose to keep our rental amount at what we were paying during high season because we found a great apartment exactly where we wanted to be and didn't really compromise on much. A very good value! And, because we are living here year round, we chose to purchase some items that make our life more comfortable and pleasing for us.  This was total Discretionary spending and not necessary at all to live here. 



Living Expenses:      Dec - Jan, 2014          J an - Feb       Feb - March      March - April       April - May       May - June      June 13-July 29            August       September            October
Rent w/util $1,050.00 $1,000.00 $1,000.00 $1,000.00 $1,000.00 $1,000.00 $1,000.00 $1,000.00 $1,000.00 $1,000.00
Electric $4.00 $50.00 $36.00 $115.00
Cell Phone $16.00 $16.00 $16.00 $15.00 $16.00 $31.00 $125.00 $23.00 $0.00 $30.00
Groceries $247.00 $308.00 $230.00 $331.00 $326.00 $298.00 $397.00 $372.00 $174.00 $429.00
Meals Out $274.00 $283.00 $167.00 $382.00 $255.00 $224.00 $897.00 $273.00 $284.00 $175.00
Drinks Only $211.00 $193.00 $164.00 $130.00 $160.00 $136.00 $0.00 $170.00 $110.00 $196.00
Entertainment $70.00 $74.00 $102.00 $238.00 $72.00 $0.00 $164.00 $5.00 $0.00 $13.00
Massages $40.00 $40.00 $40.00 $30.00 $33.00 $57.00 $0.00 $52.00 $57.00 $70.00
Bus/Taxi $72.00 $28.00 $5.00 $21.00 $39.00 $14.00 $29.00 $45.00 $18.00 $20.00
Dental Cleaning $24.00 $0.00 $0.00 $0.00 $14.00 $0.00 $0.00 $0.00 $39.00 $0.00
Incidentals $22.00 $4.00 $23.00 $20.00 $31.00 $25.00 $844.00 $25.00 $82.00 $26.00
TOTAL $2,026.00 $1,950.00 $1,747.00 $2,167.00 $1,946.00 $1,835.00 $3,456.00 $2,001.00 $1,764.00 $2,074.00
TOTAL W/O RENT $976.00 $950.00 $747.00 $1,167.00 $946.00 $835.00 $2,456.00 $1,001.00 $764.00 $1,074.00
Discr Spending:
Visas/Legal $72.00 $600.00 $402.00 $223.00
Clothes/Shoes/Gifts $538.00 $145.00 $14.00
Medical Ins. $129.00 $129.00 $129.00 $129.00 $129.00 $129.00 $129.00 $211.00 $631.00 $211.00
Tours $203.00 $32.00 $2,152.00
Home Improve $793.00 $1,110.00 $678.00 $120.00 $605.00
Medical $60.00 $15.00 $184.00
Dental $118.00 $705.00 $600.00
Air Travel $1,846.00
Hotels $38.00 $90.00 $90.00
Car Rental/Gas $1,028.00
Spanish Lessons $117.00 $124.00 $36.00
TOTAL Discr. $449.00 $253.00 $225.00 $960.00 $1,372.00 $1,512.00 $3,703.00 $1,147.00 $1,178.00 $3,895.00
TOTAL ALL $2,475.00 $2,203.00 $1,972.00 $3,127.00 $3,318.00 $3,347.00 $7,159.00 $3,148.00 $2,942.00 $5,969.00

*Electric: We are billed every 2 months for our power usage, so the $115 paid is really only $53/mo. Fabulous, considering that we have an all electric washer/dryer combo (but very efficient!); we run 2 ceiling fans 24/7; a floor fan in the living area most of the day during the summer months because, yes, it's hot; and, we ran the air conditioner every night for about 4-5 hours total.  We are VERY pleased with this!!

*Groceries: We are truly beginning to have a pattern of a larger bill at Costco every 2 months.  This is because we stock up on wine, beer, and mineral water items that last us over a 2 month period.  We do this because we can't carry even one case of wine or beer in order for us to take the bus, so we take a taxi home.  If we are going to have that expenditure, we might as well stock up to avoid unnecessary more expensive taxi rides.

*Drinks Only:  We had several new visiting couples that wanted to meet with us plus more and more of the snowbirds that we made friends with are returning so, of course, we had to be social and get together.

*Visa/Legal:  We finally succeeded in getting our security deposit back from our old landlord. Out of it, we paid $223 to our lawyer for his services. A very good value for his efforts over 7 months.

*Tours & Hotel:  We decided to take a weeks excursion to the Copper Canyon, Mexico's Grand Canyon including 2 nights in Mazatlán.

*Home Improvement: I was very surprised and pleased to receive 2 commission payments this month from my real estate business that I left in the capable hands of other REALTORS in WA.  As a result, we splurged and purchased some beautiful Mexican Talavera pottery and I purchased a new/used cell phone. A birthday present to me!

*Dental: Unexpectedly, of course, Mike broke one of his front tooth crowns.  This is the same tooth that was "fixed" both in Costa Rica and, again, in the states a year ago.  We are certainly hoping that the now very expensive tooth is fixed!!

Although our expenditures were higher, as explained above, with the extra income received this month, we are still within our total monthly income.  We are on track for spending no more than our annual income, which has been our goal including our travels and unexpected expenditures.

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Persistence = Success !! Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

As town begins to wake up, shops, restaurants, bars, live music, live shows, cruise ships, snow birds, and FaceBook friends enter our lives!! We're hitting a groove that feels so incredibly comfortable!! Home, it truly feels like HOME !

The last couple of weeks have been full of friendship and love for us. It began with friends, Tammie & Jimmy McDowell, that we met in Cuenca, Ecuador, coming to visit PV to consider moving here. This was after following my blog since we met in September, 2013 while they were living in Cuenca and we were there for a visit. 

Our visit began by meeting at Nacho Daddy for some Sunday football. We picked up right where we had left off, exchanging funny stories. So incredible that it had been a full year already since that night at San Blas for "singles" night. LOL

We went out looking at apartments with the McDowell's and saw some great places. After looking at several with a terrific rental agent, we showed them an apartment in another building on our street and then invited them to look at one in our building. Long story short, they will now be our neighbors starting in December in the unit above us. Love being able to choose our neighbors!!

As their 10 days here unfolded, the McDowell's shadowed us on many errands, taking the local busses, learning where the most economical places were to eat, drink, and be merry! In general, getting a feel for what it's really like to live here. 

Dinner at Fusion Gourmet on their 50% off night.
Tammie, Jimmy, Me & Mike.

Happy Hour at Signature Lounge with another couple that live in Ecuador & are considering PV that knew Tammie & Jimmy.  Me, Tammie, Bill & JoAnn.

Jimmy & Me enjoying the music & a dance at Nacho Daddy.

Tammie got "touristized" !!!

Expat Happy Hour at Langostino's. Tim, Georgina, Jan, ?, Nelson & Me.

A great photo of Tammie & Jimmy.
 
We had been searching FaceBook for a small dog for our property caretaker, Reuben, to adopt for many weeks. Rueben is a wonderful man with a wonderful soul and lots of love to be given out. His previous companion had passed and he was a very lonely. 

The stars aligned for him finally after several false attempts by us. A post came on FB that presented a perfect opportunity! After speaking with the owners several times, they came to bring Zsa Zsa to our home for Rueben to meet her and for them to meet him. 

All I can say is that it was love at first sight for Rueben. Zsa Zsa not so much except she did eat out of his hand a couple of times before snarling and barking at him. Little miss is a very spoiled, one owner dog. All others stay away until she gets to know you. 

But it was agreed that Rueben was a good person and he would take her home to see how things would go. Suffice it to say, there is now lots of love going around. They are both smitten with each other and Zsa Zsa has control of the bed. It's absolutely endearing to see Rueben's face light up when talking about her and, as you can see, Zsa Zsa is one happy dog!!  We are thrilled to have a part in this pairing. 

Zsa Zsa

A happy baby going for a ride on the bike.  He takes her everywhere!
 
A week ago Sunday, Mike and I headed out by bus to Bucerias, about an hour north via 2 bus rides up the Bay. We were invited to our new friends, Tessa & Jim Armstead's, new home. They moved here from the west side of WA and we're all Seahawks fans. So a fun day spent at their home watching the Hawks not play well enough and a good BBQ meal of cheese burgers, my deviled eggs, and luscious homemade baked beans. 

Tessa, Jim & Me.
 
On Monday evening, we had made plans to have dinner at other friends' home in Gringo Gulch, Judy Snow & David Kamp. As it's more than a comfortable walking distance if you want to arrive without being drenched in sweat, we took a cab. Since another couple, Georgina & Tim Drummond, that live more in our area were also going, we made arrangements to meet and share a cab. Another fabulous evening of sharing and having good conversation. 

Georgina, Me & Tim. 

Beautiful sunset from the terrace.

 
We had to say "Hasta Luego" to the McDowell's on Wednesday morning knowing that it would be a short  period of time before they'll be back to begin their full time life in PV. 

We then quickly grabbed a bus and headed to the dentist's office for Mike to get his permanent crown on the tooth that broke. To get to the office, we must take a bus to the Costco stop and then walk about 2/3 mile. We've really gotten used to these walks and believe, even in the heat, that they are good for us. 

That evening, we met up with other FB friends, Linda & Manuel Orozco, who were on vacation in PV. Linda and I had been fb friends for quite awhile and they are also from WA. They, too, have been following my blog and are making plans to move here when the time is right for them. 

Mike, Me, Manuel & Linda at CC's.
 
No, THANK YOU, Linda & Manuel!!
 
One of the wonderful things about having friends visit from the states is that they can "mule" items for you that you just can't get here. I had purchased a new/used iPhone 5s off of EBay and Linda was gracious enough to let me have it shipped to her in the states for delivery to me. The duty to have it shipped to me here is quite expensive. THANK YOU, Linda & Manuel!

Again, we have been delighted to meet such wonderful people who we now call "friends"!!! Sharing good places to eat, drink, and be merry plus having them visit us in our home is tremendously fulfilling for us. It's going to be awhile before they're ready for the move but we know we'll see them on their return visits, hopefully, every year.

Mike needed to go back to the dentist for a minor adjustment last Thursday, so we decided to use the opportunity to go to the movies. Albeit, a little bit of a hike at the height of the day's heat especially when you walk about 8 blocks out of your way trying to find a shortcut. It put a strain on my patience. But, oh so worth it in the end!!  We saw The 100 Foot Journey with Helen Mirren and it was exquisite!!  Highly recommend it to all. 

BUT, the most wonderful thing that happened a week ago was that we FINALLY and successfully received our security deposit back from our previous landlord!!!  This was 7 months of being persistent, a pain in the butt to anyone we could find, and just stubborn gringos!! It took us finally finding the "right" person to talk to that had a real connection to the true owner of the property. I can't tell you how incredibly satisfying it feels to WIN !!

In addition to getting our security deposit back, which was a full month's rent of $1,050, I also received out of the blue a couple of commission checks from my real estate business that I left in the hands of other REALTORS 2 years ago!! 

With these few extra pay checks, we decided to buy 4 Mexican Talavera dinner plates and a serving platter, that we use as a wall decoration also.  We had been wanting them but just couldn't justify the cost even though they were truly quite inexpensive considering.

Large serving platter.

Dinner Plates.

It's been a great month all around and it's not over! So looking forward to Halloween this coming Friday, which is highly celebrated here along with Day of the Dead on November 1.  Plus, our good friends Shauna and Rob will be returning from their month in the states. And, we have more people coming to visit PV wanting to meet up with us that have been reading my blog.

Of course, we continue to enjoy the beautiful sunsets!!



 
Hasta Luego, amigos!! Have a GREAT week everyone!